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Redefining Happiness: From Success to Significance | Mike Hayes & Dr. Jeff Garner

🔥 Excerpt

“Happiness is an inside job.”

⚡ TL;DR

In this conversation, I sit down with Dr. Mike Hayes and Dr. Jeffrey Garner to explore redefining happiness as something grounded in presence, gratitude, inner alignment, and a clear sense of worth. We talk about why achievement, approval, possessions, and constant striving leave so many founders depleted, and how joy becomes possible when we make room, face sorrow honestly, and stop outsourcing peace to the next win.

📄 Show Notes

Redefining happiness starts with a hard truth I have seen in business and life, the next milestone does not settle the soul. In this conversation, Dr. Mike Hayes and Dr. Jeffrey Garner brought language to something many founders feel but rarely name.

Redefining happiness means seeing that joy is not hiding inside the next deal, the next title, or the next validation. It lives closer than that. It shows up in breath, gratitude, presence, and the freedom to stop measuring our worth by performance.

As I listened, I kept thinking about how many leaders live in pursuit mode every day. We build, solve, push, and carry responsibility for everyone around us. Redefining happiness invites a different posture. It asks us to make room, tell the truth about our grief, release offense, and lead from a place of inner steadiness.

Redefining happiness also changes how we build companies. When peace is not tied to external outcomes, we can pursue the work with clarity, discipline, and strength. We still want to win. We simply stop asking success to do the job of the soul. That shift creates healthier leadership, better decisions, and a life that feels whole while the work is still unfolding.

✅ Key Takeaways

Happiness cannot be sustained by achievement alone.

Founders need inner steadiness as much as external progress.

Offense, striving, and approval seeking drain joy and judgment.

Gratitude and presence create room for a deeper kind of peace.

Healthy leadership begins with knowing your worth is not on trial.

👑 Host Info

Rick Meekins (https://rickmeekins.com) is a serial entrepreneur, strategic business disruption advisor, podcast guest, and host of The Relentless Pursuit of Winning Podcast, where he explores what it actually takes to build, lead, and sustain meaningful businesses. With over 30 years of experience working alongside founders and leadership teams, Rick focuses on helping companies develop and implement disruptive advantages and developing platforms to explore and distribute human insight.

Interested in working together, having Rick speak, or partnering with the show?

Start here: https://rpowpodcast.com/contact/

🧭 Chapters

00:00 Welcome and why happiness matters
01:05 The modern pursuit of happiness
04:36 The Galilee moment that changed everything
09:25 Why offense blocks joy
17:38 Dopamine, addiction, and enough
23:12 Founders, striving, and inner worth
31:00 Healing unworthiness at the root
39:49 Mourning, comfort, and honest emotion
48:30 A practical path to joy
54:04 The entrepreneur’s danger zone
01:00:45 Free assessment and mini course
01:01:29 Closing reflections

Biography

**Dr. Mike Hayes**
Dr. Mike Hayes is a global spiritual leader and bestselling author of *When God Is First* and *Real Happy*. With over 50 years of ministry experience, he helps people rediscover joy by turning their “happiness radar” inward. Founder of the Center for National Renewal, he’s advised national leaders and now mentors emerging voices with a kingdom mindset. Through his *Make Room* process, he guides individuals toward alignment with God, themselves, and others. Beyond ministry, he enjoys family, travel, classic car restoration, and fishing.

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**Dr. Jeffrey Garner**
Dr. Jeffrey Garner is the founder of *Way of the Beloved*, a spiritual pathway inspired by the Fourth Gospel. As a pastor, educator, and spiritual director, he equips seekers to Awaken, Abide, and Affect their world through God’s love. With two decades of service in urban ministry, he blends academic depth, poetic voice, and soul-centered storytelling. Through retreats, coaching cohorts, and his Masterclass, he helps individuals live from their identity as God’s beloved. His work is a tender, transformative call to walk with Jesus daily.

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